We often look outward for blame with the absence of accountability… simply because it’s the guilt and shame that we feel because we KNEW we saw those red flags and chose to ignore them… finding that outward blame then justifies why we made the mistake of staying knowing what we already knew….
When I did the episode "That can never be you, I choose me instead"… that’s what that was about… it wasn’t a bad feeling it was a memory of when I used to ignore red flags.
Everyone has an assignment, that person in your life, their assignment may be to hurt you in order for you to know you never want to feel this or that way again… yet here we are trying to hide that we ever once fell for it, yet we all have gone through it.
#podcast #selfhelp #story #healing #relationships #oneself #accountablity #blame #shame #guilt
We often look outward for blame with the absence of accountability… simply because it’s the guilt and shame that we feel because we KNEW we saw those red flags and chose to ignore them… finding that outward blame then justifies why we made the mistake of staying knowing what we already knew….
When I did the episode "That can never be you, I choose me instead"… that’s what that was about… it wasn’t a bad feeling it was a memory of when I used to ignore red flags.
Everyone has an assignment, that person in your life, their assignment may be to hurt you in order for you to know you never want to feel this or that way again… yet here we are trying to hide that we ever once fell for it, yet we all have gone through it.
#podcast #selfhelp #story #healing #relationships #oneself #accountablity #blame #shame #guilt